For further research into domestic violence I am looking into articles where men are the victims of domestic violence as I would like to shine light on the fact that it is not just women that suffer from the abuse but is also men which I think is often overlooked.

Alex Skeel told MailOnline he was speaking out because he wanted to campaign against domestic abuse and to show awareness that it is not just women that experience domestic abuse. When talking on This Morning Alex Skeel seemed to be nervous and embarrassed to me this indicated that he was not confident on telling his story to the public as he’s manly hood may be questioned and he would be seen as weak to let a female control him in that way.
“His girlfriend Jordan Worth, 22, made his life a misery by inflicting a catalogue of injuries on him in violent attacks.”
“It was three years of mental abuse and then it turned physical.” this tells me that it went on for some time suggesting that because she was a woman he felt that he was unable to speak out about her as if she is a woman she does not mean to be abusive and is not as bad as she actually is.
“She was probably only girl I ever felt was interested in me. I never had that before. But she clearly used my history to her advantage to go on and do what she did.” this shows me that women can be as manipulative as men and can pray on men that seem more vulnerable then most, this is something that I want to bring to light within my work as it is often over looked and women are seen as the more innocent. I am doing this by expressing the emotions and venerability of men when in a violent relationship ideas by experimenting with glass expressing the violent side when the dominant partner brakes things out of anger, the broken glass will also represent how the relationship is in pieces and falling apart. it can also express how the male victim feels, how he feels like he is broken with a broken heart and is no longer himself.
When researching articles on males speaking out about being abused I found that it was very difficult to find many however many about women being abused did come up while researching, this made me think that most men do not come forward to speak about what they have been through this may be because they feel uncomfortable and judged as they may be seen as weak to let a female control them and may feel that their reputation as a man would be damaged. This may be because much of the society often see the abuse as one-sided and see the men as the abusive partner which is not always the case. This belief that men are seen as the violent gender is shown through the survey that I did with 6 random people as they showed the frequent similarity of labelling men as the dominant and controlling.


